WhAT's nEXT AfteR the ' Yes I DO..to Be your bF but Not MARriAge'

They say, it is hard to find someone who is truly and brave enough to commit a strong solid relationship, the kind of happy ever after just you and me no ogling or fantasizing other guy type of relationship. This is especially true in homosexual relationship..it is pronounced as Ho.Moh..SEX..you.all . Yes, it is the word SEX that holds us back from the ‘I do, you’re the only one in my life ‘. I was in the conversation with a bisexual guy who thinks that the chances of two guys living together are slimmer than the tree branch ( I strongly disagree with what he said..but he is a pig head..and one day..wishfully I can prove him wrong ^_^) and on the other hand, heterosexual couples have higher chances of living together as his argument was that having a family with children hold the couples strong together but not in homo couple. However, I debated (really feel the need to defence us, the ‘community’ although I am not a pro gay activist) that in this new millennium, adoption is permissible and legal in some place and the lack of children problem that hold two people together is resolved then. Then, he popped out another question, ‘how many gay guys want to adopt children, maybe those trashies couple at the bottom of the market (those guys who are not fortunate enough to be considered as attractive in gays community) but not the hottie pies, they know nothing about raising and adopting children, they are too self centred for themselves for sex and out of how many gay guys in the street rather have children than having sex with hot tushies?’. In my defence, I argued that not everyone wants hot guys just for sex, some want to share their life with and have a family and not all hot guys are brainless..at least not me ^_^. Whatever it is, what he said has left me to ponder this question, what is left after yes I do, be it for sex with just us two or for abstinence from sleeping with other hot guys. What is going to happen next? How do you salvage your relationship once the sexual passion for one another has run out? Love maybe the answer, but again what is love? More and more questions coursing through my veins as to answer that question. To be honest, I haven’t been in love before...maybe love did show up but I did not realise it. Can we, just have sex with the same person for the rest of our lives to show commitment for love?