Nothing much for me to do during these holidays aside from entertaining my mother by actively participating in the business or loitering around in the malls with my buddy and stop by halfway for a drink. So, in the middle of the conversation, shock came into my mind when the word "detached" coming out from his mouth. What surprised me even more is the way he reacted to it and coping with it as if nothing great or significant impact on his emotions. That is my friend, eddy (name has been changed to protect privacy), who has been in a relationship more than 2 years with a girl he met in working. Out of a sudden, he wanted to be free and single from engaging and do what the bachelors can do other than party and hooking up for random sex. Upon asking him the reason for pulling such a daring act, his answer, clearly reflected on his face….breakaway…just a word to summarize his lengthy speech of denying his fault in the breaking up. Then, one of my other friends asked…"what if you are in the mood for the guys need", should it be kudos or a shame to him for posing such a question? Kudos for him to remind eddy's irrational move and self-fish of not caring on his girlfriend needs or a shame on him for taking things for granted if you know what I mean. Whatever his decision is, as a friend, you gained my respect as a buddy but not when it comes to gentle-man to a lady. At the end of the day, let's see the difference being single versus those being in a couple.
10 GRIZZLY TRUTHS:
Being a bachelor:
1) You have absolute control over your own daily timing be it out for a drink or a party.
2) Finance is free to alter in whatever way you want as long as " you spent on what you earned for yourself"
3) Flirting without thinking twice and this sometimes but not always goes together with sleeping around…haha.
4) Complimentary drinks from the girls if they think you are hot.
5) Boundless of your favorite invitation delivered to you door-step, but not marriage wedding I guess.
6) Liberation to have your room to be styled in whichever ways that you fancy.
7) No restrictions on whatever you are doing even though it is pertaining to your physical appearance… "if you have it, flaunt it"…after all it is a metrosexual world for this new era.
8) No report or permission is required to do anything.
9) Save your energy to focus on your studies or job rather than resolving the conflicts arising from women are from Venus, men are from Mars type of opinions.
10) Finally, free to have sex with no strings attached.
Being a lover:
1) Starting with the most basic bonus, someone to hold on into when the tough gets going or going gets tough.
2) Get the feelings of noticed or needed when you are alone apart from your close relatives, provided the love is pure and genuine from the heart.
3) Financial support from your girl if just in case a real bankruptcy hits you, you will never know u might be out of job for a few months or even a year.
4) To share something that you cannot share with your relatives or your close friends.
5) Kill the extra time you have on surprising her with the best measure if you like seeing her smile all the time.
6) A bolted sweet memory with the girl you love.
7) To have a trusted person to discuss with when a decision has to be made by you.
8) No more doubts on whether the sex is free from STD given that you or your girl is faithful to each other.
9) The warmth gifts from the girl of your dream…haha..a bit materialistic here.
10) A promising future with abundant of joys and happiness.
After all these reviews, whichever route you choose to become, always out-weight before choosing it.
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